The simplicity of the circuit should enable anyone who knows a tiny bit about electronics to make his own DC-DC converter. If you can't, then you should probably purchase a finished PSU when it's available (ours will probably be available late next week).
Did you watch the seminar? A sense wire will only compensate for the loss on the cable, but not in the input filter and the contact resistance of the square DIN connector. Further, compensating cross-regulation due to GND rise on 12V load will only "seemingly" solve the problem (if you use two sense wires, one on GND and the other on 5V): While you have a perfect 5V at the connector, you have an unknown loss in the input filter, because the sense wire will only tell you about the current voltage, but not the current.
I believe you're best off using a shunt resistor in both the 5V and the 12V rail, so you know the total current that flows. Two op-amps aren't the most expensive thing in the world, and you also don't have the pain to take care of possibly-failing sense wires (you need to make sure that your regulation does not go over board in that case).
I believe that cable drop compensation using current measurement is easier to handle and has less failure possibilities than three sense wires. With the added benefit of also taking care of contact resistance and input filter loss, it's beyond any doubt the better solution.