i went ahead and also ordered the 40mhz-50mhz upgrade for the card so i can eliminate one more thing.
if i can get the card working at 50mhz as it works at 25mhz then i will be happy. 33mhz and 40mhz dont matter then.
thats definitely the last money im spending on the amiga though. at the moment its stressing me out too much and at 72 years old i dont need the hassle for something that started as just a nostalgic retirement gift to myself.
hopefully it wont take long to get the licence code in an email. i would have expected it instantly tbh but maybe its more complicated